Due to crises, dramatic change, or simply asked to ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY or are HELD ACCOUNTABLE for an area we know nothing about... scares us... it causes F.E.A.R... what will they think... did I make the right decision... will they like me.. what if I fail... I'm not important... I'd feel humiliated... its just TOO many UNKNOWNS for me to handle <<<==== NOTICE how this is JUST a convenient KNOWN place for us to stand... when we decide we don't want to step up